With the encouragement of my sister-in-law, I have now set up an Oompa registry. Keep in mind everything is still gender-neutral until we find out for sure what we're having.
So, here is that link for whoever is interested: Oompa . Oompa is cool because they have no tax, they have very colorful & durable toys, and they're a bit more unique than all the toys at all the big kid toy department stores. so--again--everything so far is pretty much for either a boy or girl, but we'll be happy with either, of course :)